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"My Husband Has Lost Interest in Me Sexually"


It can be incredibly hurtful and confusing when a partner loses interest in a sexual relationship. If your husband has lost interest in you sexually, it can leave you feeling rejected and unsure of what to do. Here are a few possible reasons why your husband may have lost interest in you sexually and some tips on how to address the situation:

  1. Stress and fatigue: Stress and fatigue can have a on a person's sex drive. Your husband may be experiencing high levels of stress at work or in his personal life, which can lead to a decrease in sexual desire. Additionally, fatigue can also play a role in a decrease in sexual desire, as lack of energy and tiredness can make it difficult to feel in the mood.

  2. Health issues: Certain health issues, such as diabetes, high blood pressure, and depression, can also lead to a decrease in sexual desire. It's important to consider if your husband may be experiencing any health issues that could be affecting his sex drive.

  3. Relationship problems: Relationship problems can also cause a loss of interest in sex. If your husband is feeling distant or disconnected from you emotionally, it can lead to a lack of desire for intimacy. Additionally, unresolved conflicts or lack of communication can also contribute to a decrease in sexual desire.

  4. Medications: Certain medications can also have an impact on sexual desire. If your husband has recently started taking a new medication, it may be worth looking into if the medication could be affecting his sex drive.

  5. Hormonal changes: Hormonal changes can also play a role in a decrease in sexual desire. As men age, their levels of testosterone can decrease, leading to a loss of interest in sex.

It's important to remember that a decrease in sexual desire is not necessarily a reflection on how your husband feels about you. It could be a combination of factors, and it's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about his feelings and what might be affecting his sex drive.

Here are some tips on how to address the situation:

  1. Communicate openly and honestly: Have an open and honest conversation with your husband about his feelings and what might be affecting his sex drive. Listen to him and try to understand his perspective.

  2. Be understanding: Show your husband that you understand and care about his feelings. Let him know that you're there for him and that you're willing to work on the problem together.

  3. Suggest couples therapy: Consider couples therapy to help you both work through any underlying emotional issues that may be affecting your sexual relationship.

  4. Seek medical advice: If your husband is experiencing a decrease in sexual desire due to a health issue, it's important to seek medical advice to address the issue.

  5. Show affection and intimacy in other ways: Remember that intimacy and physical affection don't have to be limited to sexual activities. Show affection and intimacy in other ways, such as cuddling, holding hands, and kissing.

  6. Be patient: Remember that it may take time for things to improve. Be patient and try to focus on the positive aspects of your relationship.

It's important to remember that every couple is different, and what works for one couple may not work for another. The most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly with your husband and work together to find a solution that works for both of you. Don't blame yourself or feel guilty if your husband has lost interest in you sexually, try to understand what may be causing the problem and work together to solve it.


In conclusion, a decrease in sexual desire can be caused by various factors such as stress, fatigue, health issues, relationship problems, medications and hormonal changes. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about his feelings and what might be affecting his sex drive.


Show your understanding and care, suggest couples therapy and seek medical advice, show affection and intimacy in other ways, be patient and don't blame yourself or feel guilty. Remember that every couple is different, and it's important to work together to find a solution that works for both of you. It's also important to remember that a decrease in sexual desire is not a reflection of how your husband feels about you or the relationship.


It can be a complex issue that involves multiple factors and it may take time to resolve. Be patient, communicate openly, and try to understand his perspective. It's also important to take care of your own emotional well-being and to seek support if needed. You can talk to a therapist, counselor or a sexologist, who can help you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, it's normal for sexual desire to fluctuate over time and it's important to work together to find a solution that works for both of you.


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